19M Losing Virginity to 18F
Hey everyone! Me 19M, is going to lose my virginity after not pulling the trigger on a few opportunities in the past. I recently matched with a girl on Hinge who’s 18 and heading to college in mid-August. She’s made it clear she’s looking for a quick fling before she leaves, and I’m pretty sure she’s a virgin too, given her eagerness to hook up after our first date at my place with an emphasis before leaving for college.
I don’t think the Hinge girl knows I’m a virgin, and I’m not sure if I should tell her. I’m thinking of not necessarily hiding it, but not presenting the information unprompted either or asking her if its her first time without conversation hinting at it. We’ll have plenty of time to do it multiple times if she wants to, so my plan is to start with some making out, maybe massage her a bit for foreplay, then go for oral. I plan on using a condom to help me last longer, and I’ve been practicing with a sex toy to build up my stamina and control. If I feel like I’m about to finish too quick, I’ll slow down or switch back to oral/change positions as a break from stimulation to keep it going. Any advice whatsoever would be greatly appreciated, thanks!
Posted Jul 29, 2025, 6:12 AM UTC