If you matched on Bumble with a Chinese guy who lives in Ayala Avenue, RUN!

Let this be a PSA.

If you're in Manila and you happen to match with a Chinese guy on Bumble who lives along Ayala Avenue, Makati, do yourself a favor and swipe left.

He might tell you he's spiritual, that he’s done with games, that he just wants to be loved for who he really is. He’ll talk about astrology, deep connections, soul purposes — the whole cosmic dream.

Sounds deep? That’s what I thought too.

What I didn’t know was that behind the soft voice and sad boy demeanor was a man-child with narcissistic tendencies and a history of deceiving women. I even got pregnant, and when I opened up about my emotional dilemma, his response was: “Keeping the baby is crazy.”

But the worst part?

He was in a relationship the whole time. 5 years if I’m not mistaken. I reached out to the woman I thought was his ex, only to find out they were still very much together. And she was lovely. Kind. Patient. Too good for this shit.

He didn’t just betray one person, he betrayed both of us. Probably more. He once told me he was dating around, but that he wanted to be exclusive because we were “happy together.” Looking back, I wouldn't be surprised if I wasn’t the first woman he got pregnant either.

So if you matched with someone who ticks all these boxes — Chinese, lives in Makati, from the green school, in his 30s, loves astrology, plays golf and tennis, used to play football, has over 2k+ followers on IG — be careful. Ask questions. Trust your gut. Because sometimes, wolves hide behind pretty words and wounded stories. Weaponized vulnerability is still manipulation.

I want accountability. I want women to be warned. And maybe someone reading this needs the reminder: you’re not crazy, he just lied.

And don’t let him read this. Let’s warn as many women as we can. He claimed he gets 1,000+ likes a day on Bumble — that’s 1,000 more chances to manipulate, lie, and ruin someone else.