We stare at each other in the gym.
We've been looking at each other for months. The first time he ever saw me we were both standing, he had a big smile on his face and was about to walk up to me but didn't.
Now, it's just been a staring thing from afar. He's even gone to a corner once to pretend to workout but really just watched my set. Today, he walked back and forth by me and clearly watched my set. The thing is, he doesn't look at me at all when we're really close. No smile, no nothing. It's like I don't exist.
I don't understand social cues and behaviors so this is just really awful for me in general.
I dress modestly. I have full length pants all the time and a cover. So I know it isn't that. It's not my form either and I'm usually resting when I see him.
He recently got a girlfriend and when he saw me last week he kind of stopped walking to look at me but she pushed him forward to keep walking. I won't ever talk to this guy don't worry, I just wanna know what his deal is.
I'm probably just being delusional.
Posted Jul 29, 2025, 6:17 AM UTC