how do you not know how hot the sounds you make are?

I’ve talked to a few guys on here and there seems to be trend of you all not knowing how fucking hot the sounds coming out of you really are. how do you not know how dripping wet it makes us to hear your grunts as we swallow your cocks into the back of our throats? why are you depriving us of hearing how insane our tight walls are driving you? I used to fuck with this guy who always clenched his jaw and played with my hair when I went down on him, he’d put the back of his hand to his mouth to muffle his moans when he was close, it was so fucking hot. so don’t be shy be loud