Almost 7 year relationship(4years LDR)

My almost 7 year relation just ended today. We were in a 4 year LDR relationship since he went back in the US(he's also filipino but a US citizen) and I'm here in Philippines. He keeps telling me he'll surprise and come see me soon. But unfortunately he lost his job and struggling for 3 months. He became avoidant and wont communicate with me. Just when I asked him if he'll really want to come see me, he opened up that his family advice him to end things with me because they see him struggling with his finances and he can't save up and meet the U.S. citizen sponsor financial eligibility to apply for Fiancé visa(this is what we planned to be but he haven't proposed to me).I told him I'm not in a rush and I understand his situation and I'm not pressuring him, that I can wait. He said he doesn't want me to wait anymore because he is not sure if he can fix his finances anytime soon or he'll be able to see me again. He also told me that he thinks I'm the only one who doesn't do my part and come see him there. Like what am I supposed to do? He doesn't even talk to me and give me a clear vision or what steps we need to do first. I told him my family will help financially if I decide to go abroad but I don't see the point of holding on anymore. Because he already gave up and been considering the advice of his family since the time that he lost his job. I feel like he just wanted me to leave first so, I did. Maybe we just grew apart. In the end I'm the one who sent him long paragraph messages but he didn't even leave me on read. It hurts so bad because I wanted closure, I want to hear something from him but he chose to ghost me. It's been two days now since our last conversation and I get sleepless nights, loss of appetite and cries suddenly from time to time.