Mistakes

I just can’t deal….With the sheer unfairness of the fact that we, the neurotypical partners, are just not allowed to mistakes no matter how basic, small, meaningless etc. Get absolutely chewed out for doing so!! But our dx partners are seemingly allowed to make unlimited mistakes because of their adhd! How completely unfair is that? And yet when i point this out i’m the bad guy, and he escalates. FFS

Context: i forgot the brand new pin on my card at the grocery checkout, didnt want to use our credit card (being mindful of credit card use) so i used our saver account which i remembered the pin for. He is furious because we missed out on like $5 interest for the month…what would you have me do dickhead??? Not pay for the groceries??