Am I overreacting ? Advice on dating. 25F 25M. Bf has days where’s he’s secretive. I don’t what I should do. Either talk to him about it or keep it to myself ?
So me and my BF been together for about 7-8 month now and everything is good. And going great. So I do have a bad history w man so now that I’m in a relationship I have a bit of trust issues when it comes down to little signs of “cheating”.
So I noticed my bf one day he hide his shoes from me on IG and when I saw that with him he said he didn’t want me to see a “surprise” he got me ?!? Like at first I just left it be.but then he did it again when we went on a date together And now last night he turned off his location. Obviously on find my iPhone “no location found” means you manually turned off your location. So now he told me last night he went for a “drive” which I didn’t since he wasn’t really communicating because he was a bit stressed and down yesterday. And I just hope on social media and see he turned off his comments under one of his post where I commented “mine”. So I don’t know if he’s hiding that he has a gf ? Or idk. What should I do. I don’t want to sound crazy with him about it. But these little signs aren’t ever good.
Posted Aug 1, 2025, 12:01 PM UTC