Psychologist who can help someone who went through a traumatic relationship breakup

Hello! I'm the person going through this but for context, I experienced this in March pa. Just now realizing that I might be going through post-traumatic stress; since I recently tried to download a dating app again to try if I could have fun and meet new people while "healing" (I didn't expect I'd be feeling more miserable this way lol)

Can anyone recommend? I'm a girl and I don't know if it's better to talk to a female psych as well to better relate to each other or a male psych to gain more insight to how the male species work? I'm leaning more towards the latter rn but I'm not sure. Hoping someone could advice. Thank you!