I am officially single:)

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So this dude and I met on Reddit. Things were good in the beginning but things started going south after 2 months of dating. He use to get jealous of little things like me following F1 drivers😵‍💫 dude literally made a post about it, few days into dating him, he thought that I would leave him for Carlos sainz😭like be frfr, I can’t pull that man lol(I have been watching F1 since I was 4 btw) and then it was about me talking to this guy friend of mine who didn’t even like me in a romantic way at all,he liked someone else but my ex made me block him😋 I did…. He had this habit of love bombing me lol..dude would tell me about how he plans to marry me😵‍💫 in about a few days of us dating. I was going through a lot yesterday because of family issues and I am on my periods and on top of that I have PCOD but dude had to talk about how his feelings were hurt because I called him a dude and a manchild because he would feel hurt off of little things.😭I called him overbearingly emotional and it felt so suffocating because I couldn’t even express my disappointment without him getting hurt and he didn’t like that at all mind you he has hurt me countless times and I didn’t stretch things like he did.I did apologise today. I explained it to him today and he literally said that his mum gets her periods but she never lashed out like this😭 I explained how period pain and tolerance is different for everyone but he called me a loudmouth😭I asked him to not talk about all this during my 1st day of periods and to that he said that not everything is about me🥰 He had this weird habit of asking for advice about stuff that would happen between us on Reddit behind my back..like he did yesterday and people thought that I am an asshole for abusing him😭 I never did 😭I tried mending things the first time he broke up with me by emailing him😵‍💫(call me a despo or whateva) The first time he did this he went to his online ‘didi’ to bad mouth me and he called me an insta addict lol..I use to send him cute reels on insta and he did ask me to send him reels btw and he told her how he dodged a bullet i.e. ME and then I reached out everywhere,I apologised and we got back together but this time I will NOT.. I genuinely liked him and I reached out and apologised every time but dude had problems. He would send me SS of reels that I liked on insta and they were funny reels btw😭 one of the reel was about a giant guy decorating a tiny ahh cake and the comments were funny so I liked the reel and he had a problem with that and told me to not do this again because he was insecure 🤡 like dude? It’s my account? It was not even a thirst trap, just a plain fucking reel😵‍💫 He would send me paragraphs, LITERAL paragraphs that he would write to himself on WhatsApp and then take an ss and send me..it would be about how I hurt him so bad😭 tf? He had a huge ego, was overbearingly emotional and selfish on top of that, he only cared about his emotions and I was a fool. I barely talked to anyone but him..He made me cry a lot lol,I was such a despo lol but not anymore😔🙏🏼 Please forgive me for any typo, I am crying abhi and can’t think straight😭

Posted Aug 1, 2025, 12:11 PM UTC

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