What are the best clitoral/penile toys for someone who dislikes vibration?

I have a wand vibrator and like it, just find it overwhelming most of the time and it doesn’t work that well. I am coming to realize I don’t like vibrations

I’m ftm and use a silicone stroker and love it too- so more toys like this would be good. I’m considering another Satisfyer or Womanizer toy but I’m not sure. I like my pro 2 but sometimes find it too intense, I need something a little gentler or less buzzy maybe. Does oscillation feel that much different from vibration ? Maybe it’s worth a try. Air pulse is good but occasionally hurts and I feel like most toys of this type don’t work well with bottom growth

Any suggestions are appreciated. I’m thinking another stroker might be good but maybe one with automatic suction? Or is there a stroker with air pulse built in?