[M4F] White girls and BBC: Admitting my fixation.

[Note: Whenever I post on this topic it almost always gets deleted quickly. So hopefully I’m able to connect with some of you before it does.)

Phew. So here goes nothing.

I was casually seeing a girl very recently. Not officially dating, but in that fun “hanging out” and getting to know each other phase.

We’re very open about things, which led to her asking me what kind of fantasies I have. Up until now, I’ve always sort of brushed off the question or given very generic answers.

Here’s why…

You see, I’m a white M who has mostly dated white (and some Asian) women. The sex has always been satisfying, but when it comes to porn or fantasizing, there’s really only one thing that stands out. Head and shoulders above the rest… it gets my heart racing like no other.

Interracial. And by that, I mean what almost everyone really means when they say it.

Cute white girls with big, hung black men.

I tried to ignore and repress the urge and curiosity for a long time. After all, why would I be into a kink where, best-case scenario, I’m just a willing observer?

But there’s no denying it: When I get a little drunk or worked up, I can’t resist typing “white girl BBC” into my search bar. And then I start imagining my partner (or even friends) as the girl in all the things that show up.

I guess it’s partly that I love women who are kind, supportive partners, but also sexually empowered and curious about bigger, better… well, things. I also have a good friend who would openly joke about being a “❄️🐰,” and that really unlocked things for me.

I think it’s time to just accept it. Even just seeing an IR couple on TV or in real life gets me revved up as my mind begins wandering.

I’d love to talk about this more with someone with a woman’s perspective. If it’s something you’re curious about or into, hit me up!

Open to roleplay, chat, or whatever you like.