D+ cup moms, how do you find nursing bras that don't dig into your shoulders?

 First-time mom here with 36G breasts. I've tried 4 'full-bust' nursing bras, but the straps always leave red marks after an hour. The weight just pulls on my neck. Does anyone know bras that actually distribute weight for larger chests?

Specifically need: Wide, padded straps (at least 1-inch) Full coverage without side spillage No underwire but still supportive.

I tried Kindred Bravely, but the band kept rolling up, so I gave up on it. After scouring Instagram, YouTube, and Reddit, here’s what I found:

Momcozy: Lots of people say it has good support and works well with my pump.

Larken: The design seems nice, and it gets recommended a lot.

Has anyone actually worn bras from these brands? I could really use your help. Any feedback is appreciated!