He (18M) spyed on me, chased for months- I (17F) said yes..then he gave 5 different reasons at different times and left!!

So, there was this one boy who kept proposing to me. I denied him multiple times, thinking it was just temporary attraction. But he didn't stop - kept convincing me, kept chasing. Eventually, I gave in willingly, thinking maybe he really cared.

The first month was sweet, things felt genuine (or so I thought). He asked for nudes - I was uncomfortable at first, but eventually gave in just to keep him happy. That decision still haunts me.

Then one fine day, we had a small argument. Instead of resolving it, he started ghosting me.

Read all my messages but never replied. Once, I had a breakdown on VC and cried in front of him. He said he "needed a break," and that we'd start fresh after entrance. I agreed - what else could I do? He wasn't ready to talk.

Entrance got over. I waited. When he returned, the first thing he told me was, "I failed. I'm leaving you."

I told him I failed too - that I might even switch careers because my family will not give me one more chance - but I was still ready to wait for him, to be with him through it all. His response?

1. "I don't want you to wait for me." (I thought this was selfless at first - turns out it wasn't.)

(Once even taunted me that I will be doing aprestige degree, you might switching your career what will I tell in my family)

I kept trying to communicate, but he was hot and cold. Some days rude, some days he'd call randomly (but never picked mine). When I asked what is my mistake? His response:

2. "I'm leaving you because life isn't going according to me." (Is life ever that linear for anyone?)

Then came more honesty (or maybe just excuses):

3. "You're too emotional and immature. You got attached too quickly." (After he promised something long-term.)

When I asked why he even started it if he wanted to quit:

4. "I just wanted to try you out." (That line broke something inside me.)

Then this:

5. "We were just dating, not in a relationship." I disagreed, and he replied, "You've never been in a relationship, so how would you even know what one feels like?"

Despite everything, he kept saying "we're compatible, but the timing isn't right." Until...

6. He blocked me. Saying we are not the right match.

His background: He had a serious relationship since 8th grade. Said his ex cheated on him - I never dug deeper.

Mine: I come from a broken, emotionally chaotic household. I told him upfront that I believe in one-man commitment and long-term relationships. I was emotionally invested and had never been in a relationship before.

I still don't know what was real - or if anything was. Thanks for reading if you made it this far. Just want a third party opinion.. please leave a common if you can.