I think I missed my soulmate at Hard Summer this weekend while being next to my husband.

Now I know this sounds terrible BUT I literally just found out my husband was cheating on me (emotionally? As far as I know and I’m a wreck right now) and I really hate that I didn’t have the chance to have spoken longer to this sweet stranger.

Here’s the scene: Hard summer 2025, Sunday Day 2, I (33F) was wearing black fishnets, black shorts, mesh top with red heart shaped pasties, black and white chucks, I was holding a Puerto Rican flag in my hand. My hair up in two curly buns! You (25-30?M) came up to me (average height lighter Mexican male, light colored striped top and pants I think) and looked me dead in my eyes, touched my arm and said “you are so beautiful” you then looked at my husband shook his hand and said “sorry bro, she’s just so beautiful… actually I’m NOT sorry.” he turns back to smile and look at me again then leaves me with “you’re so cute”

I felt him touch my soul and it’s like he knew what I was going through without words. I was initially going to brush it into the back of my mind but couldn’t. I wondered why it stuck with me as I’d been talking to mad people all day but this man had something different in his spirit… it wasn’t about him calling me beautiful but the fact in how he approached the situation. It made me feel noticed, which I haven’t been feeling in my marriage as of lately. I don’t want him for a relationship either I just want to tell him thank you for making feel so special in a moment I wasn’t. You would have never known.

I would love to find him, maybe next lifetime I chose you instead.