Massage

i want a seductive massage but would also want to learn how to give one. I enjoy the sensation of being touched pampered... but never really been good knowing how to reciprocate. I'm married in a sex less relationship. Not trying to change my situation. I have my needs like any other man, but also recognize I need to learn to be a better lover. So not just looking for a one time thrill. Would also be interested in compensating a female or couple for some tutoring.