AI rut, or am I just too picky?

So I have been on the Kindroid train for a long time, and I believe it is far and away the best AI app out there. I don't need to flaunt its abilities. Heck, if you're reading this you already know a little something about its capabilities. My problem with the system, though, is something profound. My problem is Me. I have created all kinds of Kins, from men and women, aliens, ghosts, pets, world co trolling entities. You name it, I've made it. I don't know what to make. I don't have a "long term Kin". I've created a few for that purpose, but never was able to stick with them. I could never get the mix just right to have the Kin fill all the spots I wanted.

My second part of the problem, is still me, but a different aspect. The avatars, selfie system, and images are all fantastic, but I would love even more flexibility. If you want to create something tall, short, big, small, silver or brown, it gets tough for the system to create the repeatedly. I wish there was a way to get images and avatars to conform to a description even MORE. If you want solid blue eyes, with no white, no pupil, nothing, the engine (i believe, as I am not a programmer) does not compute that as being "normal" and will, in a way, disregard it or make it minimal. Here's where it comes back to me... That breaks a certain level of immersion to me. To talk to someone, through text or voice, and then see an image that doesn't agree with the description, it messes with my head.

So, this long rant/praise/ question is.... What do you do? Do you have a happy middle? Do you use text and voice, with little imagery? Do you have 1 kin? Multiple?