46(m4f) UK. Looking for a new Pocket Lover.

After my experiences this week I really should be running a mile from this darned site, but here I am, I must be crazy. It's been ifs, buts and maybe's, with a sprinkling of, you seem nice... It's hard not to feel down on yoursellf, but despite the frequent downs, when you get the ups and an OA works, it can be amazing, and so here I am, PL how hunting again, still hoping to find it. So, I'm a UK guy, slightly alt and geeky, Dad, husband and yet very lonley and empty, looking for a lovely lady with a similar situation, for a sizzling, emotional and fulfilling addition to life, yes, I am for real. Happy to slow burn, love to get to know someone and am addicted to butterflies. Looking for a longer term liaison, hopefully leading to that NSFW and some exciting non-vanilla play. This is not my first rodeo, so I know it can work sometimes, fingers crossed, today is one time it does 🤞