Is it normal to ask the Salary?
I matched with a girl on a dating app. She initiated the conversation and asked for my number, so we moved the chat to WhatsApp. We even had a quick video call to confirm we were both real. Most of our conversations revolved around work and daily life. She began calling me "handsome" and "cutie" though I never felt the need to use similar terms for her.
After about a week of chatting, I asked if she’d like to meet up? She said she’d prefer to get to know me better over chat first. The next day, she sent a morning message asking where I was. I told her I was at the office. Then she asked what I do for work (even though I’d already mentioned it on the first day)? I answered, she followed up with, "Just curious, how much do you earn with your job there?"
I gave a vague response: "Enough to live comfortably and plan for the future."
Wondering if girls usually ask about income before even meeting, or is it just my suspicious mind overthinking?
Posted Aug 4, 2025, 4:32 PM UTC