I think grow a garden doesn’t want me to have an owl

Tell me why I’ve almost traded for a night owl 3 times (this isn’t a trade post don’t remove it it’s js a rant) ok so my friends brother has like 5 owls but he hates me so he’s like well if u wanna trade u have to give me double what u would give someone else so i asked her to trade him 1t for the night owl then id give her 1.1t and she decided she wanted the night owl :( now the second one i was abt to trade one for 1t (again) but this girl was rly nice and wanted a raiju so I introduced her to my firmed with 6 and he wanted the night owl and now he wants like 20t for it which im not doing cuz I’ve almost gotten it for 1t twice which he knows. The last one was actually for a blood owl and I js got scammed so uhh