What helped you understand that you’re trans?

Hello!! Just want to make this really clear. I’m not trans myself. I care so deeply about the queer community and this one in particular. I’m bigender(female/nonbinary ) and am honestly really scared and sorry for the way you’ve been treated recently. It makes me so mad to see you guys being targeted just for being trans. All of you are amazing people. Please remember that.

Ok onto my question lol. What helped you understand your trans identity? Was it a gradual process or was it a lightbulb moment( me with my gender identity actually). Was it a conversation with someone, you doing some thinking, etc?

Again, I’m trying my hardest to not make assumptions or make anyone uncomfortable at all. I’m not questioning anyone’s existence. Just a person who is curious and loves to learn from others. Mods/ users- if I’m saying something wrong or anything, please let me know. I’m happy to help make sure this doesn’t get anyone mad or something.

Love, Rainbow( She/ They/Xe). Your pan/demi/bigender friend who is real mad at homophobia/transphobia right now