Tips for staying hard and reaching an orgasm with her?

(M 22) so recently I've had the "pleasure" of getting laid the first time, when she first undressed i had an erection, but after fingering her for the first time (no qlue what I was doing but managed to find the clit 😝... tips appreciated tho) after that it was my turn, I got hard again, but when it was time to put the condom on and when I was focusing on that I wasnt fully hard anymore, after about 20 mins I lost the erection and just couldn't stay hard anymore (especially when the condom broke and i had to put on a new one) when we switched positions, let alone have an orgasm. I must say it was my first time so it could've been the nerves tho. But it felt okay, i didn't feel to much, could it have been the condom that i couldnt keep a boner?Any tips to stay hard? If I can't cum under 20 mins it isn't bad right?

I think this messed with my head more than that I was a "22 year old virgin"

Thanks for the tips in advance!

I think this messed with my head more than that I was a "22 year old virgin"

Thanks for the tips in advance!

Any tips for pleasuring her with fingers/mouth etc? could it have been the condom that i couldnt keep a boner? Any tips to stay hard? If I can't cum under 20 mins it isn't bad right?