TIFU by assuming my hookup was a top

So this isn’t my personal screw-up, but I have to share this story because it lives rent-free in my head. A senior I used to talk to told me about this one night she went clubbing and met a guy. They vibed, things escalated, and they decided to hook up. She just assumed he was a top because, well, most straight guys usually are, right? Big mistake.

Turns out he was a bottom. Like, not a little bit. Fully expected her to take charge of everything. She was so thrown off and frustrated by the whole experience that she ended up swearing off sex completely… for two years. She literally said, “That one night made me never want to do it again.”

TL;DR: My senior assumed her one-night-stand was a top, he was a bottom, she had to do all the work, and it was so bad she went celibate for 2 years.