Has anyone made connections in real life?

I’m a longtime lurking girl. 24f. Recently finished college. Work a responsible girl job. No one in any aspect of my life would ever guess this side of me.

I was taught about porn and masturbating at an early age. I had a couple of years of almost daily teaching and exploring with another younger (but older than me) person. So many of my fantasies have roots in those experiences and memories. Masturbating to these thoughts and memories has always been a solo thing, and very recently I’ve found people online like me. (This sub is amazing. The way it is so thoughtfully moderated is what makes me feel comfortable to post).

I’ve shared stories of my early experiences to others who were equally as turned on as me, and its felt really good. It feels comforting (and kind of exhilarating tbh) to talk to a real person, and say what goes through my mind when I’m making myself cum. I definitely have fantasized about making that kind of connection irl with other perverts or other outlets, but it makes me feel so so so nervous, I don’t know if I could be brave enough. (Respectfully, this is not an invitation for applications. We are purely in the discovery phase atm lol)

Have you connected in person with someone you met online?

Have you ever opened up about this to a partner irl?

I would love to hear what advice or stories anyone is comfortable sharing, because I’m very curious. I’m comfortable with DMs, but I do think the discussion would be interesting, if you’re comfortable keeping it in the comments 🥰

My limits: scat, gore, violence, beastiality