Do you think that body count matters?

(Idk if it’s its popular but if you’re raped, it doesn’t count as a body count)

I personally do, any body count of 1 and above for me is a skip and a red flag

The body count of a person indicates how they view sex and their behavior as a whole.

Obviously if someone has a high body count, they view sex as a casual thing rather than a sacred thing (like I do) so when it’ll come to a certain point of the relationship, they might want to have sex and if I refuse, considering that it’s sacred for me and casual for them, the relationship might fall apart…

Also high body count is just non-optimal, gives the vibes of a prostitue or someone who likes hookups so what certainty you’ll have that they aren’t doing some things behind your back? After all, if they have a high body count it means they’re easy to get so you’ll be in a unfavorable position. That’s not insecurity but it’s a realistic thing.

Also, if someone has a high body count, when it will time for you to have sex, naturally, because of her past experiences, they’ll constantly compare you to their previous experiences and if you happen to underperform, they’ll probably leave you because of sexual insatisfaction. Again, this isn’t insecurity, but a realistic scenario because it seems like sexual compatibility and satisfaction is an important thing in relationships and a partner appears to be sexual unsatisfied then what guarantees that it won’t affect the other aspects of the relationship?

Now, on top of that, I do believe in repentance and change of heart, obviously it would be extremely hard for me to look past someone who had a past filled with sexual intercourse but if they consistently show that they have changed, I might reconsider them.

Now what do you think?