literally why do you lie?

idk if i’m just naive or what but, i (20f) have very pure intentions when it comes to dating. i keep meeting guys who seem rly sweet at first and basically love bomb me then switch up on a random tuesday.

i don’t get it? why lie? why say you’re interested when you’re not? just be honest?? and the worst part is i always have to pry information out of them on how they’re feeling. every time ive been let down “gently” its only because i went out of my way to ask for some communication….like…..just say it????

idk this has happened to me so many times atp so im frustrated. anyways i give up on dating ✌️.