Update: How do I (18F) tell my parents that I am pregnant again?
This is a sad update to my previous post; I (18F) had a miscarriage. I woke up in so much pain (it felt like cramps x 100). My mother came into my room and helped me out of bed; I was bleeding everywhere. My father drove us to the hospital and I was checked. The doctor + nurse that saw me said that my miscarriage was most likely caused by my medications + the stress I’ve been feeling. They said that my body was already weak and I have to take care of myself better.
I’ve been crying since I left the hospital; I haven’t left my bedroom. A couple days ago, I told my parents about my pregnancy, and they were supportive. I also told my boyfriend (the father) and he was going to help my parents make a baby room. Now, I have to deal with loss again. I am so tired. I feel sick too. I hate that my parents + my boyfriend are going through this with me. It’s the same situation when I lost my first baby. I can’t forgive myself for losing my baby, and putting them through this.
Posted Aug 7, 2025, 12:44 AM UTC · locked