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Polygamy Dating and Having Children

Hello everyone. In our marriage, having lots of children is very important to my wife and I. For context, she is currently pregnant with our sixth child. We established that as a common goal early into our relationship.

We're currently searching for a second wife in our marriage now and its very important to me that I have biological children with the women I love, even if I bring their pre-existing children into the family, which I am willing to do. Ideally, I would like to have at least two with any sister wife.

I am here asking if my desires are understandable for a person searching for polygamy. I think its normal for a man to want children with his wife, but I'm worried that my desires will make other women weirded out. Ideally, I would casually date a women for a little bit before having a serious conversation about our relationship and future goals like I did with my wife.

I'd love to hear from other poly families about how you handled this topic, especially from a woman's point of view.

Posted Aug 7, 2025, 12:46 AM UTC

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