Finding similar minded women in your 20s?

Advice Received

The problem I’m facing is I’m having trouble finding women worth spending quality time with. Not casual sex. Causal sex is fairly easy but finding a woman worth spending time with has become incredibly hard. Where do these women hide? Any advice would be helpful.

Online dating leads to me matching with mainly women I’m unattractive to or young mothers, and unfortunately I’m not interested in either.

I’m looking for someone who is looking to start a family, interested in maintaining their health via exercise and diet, has a good head on their shoulders, I’m not looking for someone who who has a history with many men.

I feel like I bring a lot of value to the table, but cannot openly say it or I’ll attract the wrong type of attention.

I usually do not mention my accomplishments on my profiles or even on dates, cause I’m not interested in someone who cares about that. I’ll list them off here so you can get a full picture.

-I own two rental properties and live in one of them, this reduces my monthly bills to nothing assuming no maintenance that month. Combined mortgages are currently under 120k

-the average income where I live is 50k and I currently manage a business that pays me commission and salary. I’m currently on track to make 120k this year and probably will make more in future years.

  • I have roughly 60k saved in retirement, and about 30k saved in my savings account. I currently have my direct deposit set to send 65% of my check into a savings account

  • I have a 2024 Hyundai Elantra, currently financing at 1.99% interest.

-I’ve been going to the gym and I’m currently down 45 pounds, I’m 5’8 and 175 pounds, this is currently my main focus and I’ve been going to the gym 4 days a week and dieting.

-I even have an above average size penis, confirmed by multiple women in my past, and there usually is a return visit for casual sex.

Posted Aug 7, 2025, 12:52 AM UTC

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