51 [M4F] #Sacramento California (all states welcome) looking to give stockpiled affection irl & online

Hello friends, I'm not unhappy in my marriage but there's voids and urges that can't be left alone.

I'm not a linear person here with my search, I'm available for feelings and LTR but have been in these subs long enough to understand the ball rolls in many directions depending on the connection. I don't want to deny myself or you what could be. But I have stockpiled affection and attention to give, and I know I'm not alone and there's someone out there to give it to.

Ultimately I'm looking for a friendly flirtatious woman years 35+ to chase erotic vistas. I'd love to be a safe place for one to stretch out desires, urges, feelings, proudly and shamelessly and have comfort in that. A place lacking judgement even if I'm not on the same page. If this intention pendulum swung both ways for mutual advantage that would be huge, and optimal. I'm open to all races and body types.

A bit about me, tall, dad bod ish, easy on the eyes, Caucasian. Good listener, empath, sensual, patient, romantic, respectfully perverted, emotionally available, untraditionally spiritual, no shortage of desires and kinks. I'm very respectful and switch but lean in pleasure dom tendencies, love giving praise, affection, and encouragement. I clean up well but work in naturalist fields and most commonly found in clothes capable of touching earth.

I'll leave the rest for conversation, thank you for reading and may your journey be gentle.