A question for flips

So I have a little, but my little isn’t a flip, so they cant be my caregiver when I regress, so I was wondering what I should do? My little age like 14, which isn’t far off from my normal age (19), so I am able to play the role of a caregiver of sorts even when I’m little. I don’t even know if I really need a caregiver, cuz my little age is so high.