Command in general

Started playing RMC a ton recently since wizden was getting boring for me. I have a lot of experience as captain and Hos in wizden but only recently got into marine command.

I just wanted to ask if anyone else feels like commands gets so much shit they don't deserve. I was playing as an SO (staff officer) who has to guide marines send them supplies n stuff. The marines were taking a hard loss and my delta squad was in a clearing with one way out.

I was unsure what to do so I asked the XO and they said oh just wait for charlie to move south to them since pushing to them would've thinned our already low numbers. Charlie proceeded to not do that making me panic and tell delta to hold. Low and behold all of charlie fucking dies and delta is trapped. I tell delta to make a break for it and 8 out of about 15 survive.

We make it back to the base and a rifleman starts yelling insults and general crap down the radio for 5 minutes telling me it's all my fault delta died and I was a horrible person, even dipping into LOOC to call me a dick. I was just wondering why people give command shit for stuff they can't intervene with and whether anyone had similar experiences?