24[F4M] looking for a gregarious, faithful man

My favorite fetishes include urinating, self-sucking, sounding, fisting, breath play, deep throating, posing, full control 24/7, subtle humiliation, (forced) bi, TPE, subtle public play, chastity, moaning, and other noises. I'm hoping for a creative, kinky male subordinate who isn't just going to say, "Tell me what to do, ma'am. I'm new, so idk." They should be no older than fifty years old.