can we talk about the notion that if you don’t like some effects of hrt that you “shouldn’t go on it at all”? because it’s pissing me off and i’m so fed up

i’ve made comments on tiktok expressing my uncomfortability with bottom growth and how i still started testosterone because the benefits outway the negatives, and every single time i get attacked. i’m attacked by the same people who say “i love T but i HATE asshair”. the logic should go for that too bro!! don’t want asshair? oop! guess you shouldn’t go on T! too bad for you! dude, i’m 16 and have been told by a whole ass adult that i shouldn’t have gone on hormones if i didn’t want bottom growth. like, hello?? i’ve been on it since i was 13 and it saved my life, i’m very privileged to have it, so don’t you dare tell me that i shouldn’t have fucking gone on it?? what the hell is wrong with this community?

maybe my opinion isn’t valid, i don’t know, i don’t care, but it’s infuriating. we as trans men need to do fucking better because it’s annoying. if the positives outway the negatives for someone (AS IT DID WITH ME), then they should still be fucking allowed to go on it ?? stop telling people they shouldn’t have gone on it because they don’t like something that most of our community likes, it’s so annoying

i’m pretty frustrated, but i hope this makes sense. anyone who attacks me for no reason and doesn’t give a reasonable argument will be ignored 💀