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p0changina

23F (F4M) - Looking for a long-term best friend!

Chat 💬

...or more, should fate decide that on our heads.

Hi! I'm looking for a best friend with whom I can chat most of the time - doesn't have to be all the time but someone who shares my current situation of being a homebody, tied to a WFH set-up for work and just has a lot of time within their hands. Most of my nights find itself empty and while I do enjoy my peace and quiet, the silence does get deafening sometimes (now becoming repetitive).

You can be from anywhere in the world as this is an online interaction. I'd prefer it, if in the long run and when the bond's great, we do voice/video calls, watching movies/series etc. There's also the chance of playing games together and the like so, we can exchange Steam usernames when we've established that we're good in compatibility.

Here's a short list regarding about me that you may find useful:

  • I live in the Philippines, so my time zone is (GMT+8).
  • I'm 23 years old (if you hadn't caught the number on the title itself).
  • I'm 5'10" or 173cm if you prefer the centimeters measurement.
  • My body build is somewhere around chubby to slim. If we are to use the terminology some kids use, it's called "Slim thick".
  • I am, for one, built for overthinking - it's a double-edged sword. On the good end of the blade, I enjoy deep conversations and concepts. As much as possible, I like to learn about different stuff from different people, cultures and what not whilst on the opposite side of it, let's say you've been gone for a day, yeah? In my head, you either hate me, found someone more interesting than me or worst-case scenario: dead but I am chill, so you don't have to worry about me being psychotic.
  • Please do not mistake me as a guy. No, I don't take hormonal pills to be transgender. No, I didn't get some type of surgery to change my voice. My voice is slightly deeper than any woman's so, don't be alarmed. I'm 100% woman.
  • At first, I'm very introverted, awkward and may seem indifferent but once I get comfortable, I'm pretty yappy and chaotic. My humor spans from light-hearted cat memes to the darker than the night sky jokes - so you can assume that I'm an open-minded person, an open book with boundaries, of course.
  • I have a strange fondness towards darker themes of life. I'm not easily fazed so, you don't have to worry about offending me.

Perhaps a list about the potential friend (or lover) that I am looking for (not required, I am flexible.):

  • Anywhere in the world. Doesn't matter.
  • With age? Preferably, 26-30 years of age. I'll push it up to 35 years old.
  • Though it is highly unlikely that we're to meet, I hope you're taller than 5'10".
  • Ideally and as aforementioned, one who's also up for video/voice calls and can play games with me. One who's a homebody and has time to kill.
  • Please type properly because I'm here to communicate, not decipher. Don't outdo Morse Code. I'm sure you can be literate.

Should I add bonus? Yeah, I'll just leave it here but it's a bonus if you have a nice, smooth voice. It's not required but it's just really a silly little bonus. If you've gotten here so far, then send me a nice introduction about yourself! I won't entertain low effort "hi" and "hello"s.

Hope to meet you soon, man! Thanks!

Posted Aug 7, 2025, 4:44 PM UTC

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