Why do I get annoyed with my mom for no reason?

Out of all of my family members it’s just her. Whenever she talks to me I get irritated. Like I love her and she doesn’t do anything rude or mean in particular but I still get irritated by her. It’s making me lose my mind cause she’s so nice and she’s given me a great life and I feel so bad i have these kinds of thoughts. Like whenever she talks to me or makes unnecessary noise my mind can’t help but be like “shut up”. I feel like I’m going crazy. Is this irritability just a normal part of growing up??? do other people get like this too??