I (28M) was talking to a girl (24F) for a month, no texts out of nowhere, not sure how to proceed
Matched with this girl on hinge, she reached out first and we hit it off right away. Talked every single day throughout the day with her initiating good morning and goodnight texts. We talked about everything and got to know each other well. Early on about day 5 I asked her out and she said yes, but let me know she was busy the next couple of weekends. We talked all day with 1-3 hour breaks depending on if we were busy. The weekend we were planning on she got news her grandma was going to pass soon so family came in and she couldn’t meet, totally understandable. Her grandma passed during the next week but she still kept talking to me throughout the day and said it wasn’t a big deal and she still wanted to talk to me. I didn’t attempt to make plans with her that weekend (last weekend) assuming there would be a viewing/funeral or something or even just processing. We talked the whole time as normal and she was busy too. She hinted that I would meet her dog. Then this week she last texted me a goodnight text tuesday night wishing me a good sleep with a smiley face. I texted her good morning on wednesday and didn’t hear back, I also saw on her IG story that her grandpa passed that morning which made sense why she might be busy, so I said sorry for your loss I hope you’re doing ok and also said goodnight. Haven’t heard anything from her since the Tuesday night goodnight text. I understand she is likely grieving but she already went through a death in the family and there was no hiccup in texting me then.
TLDR: First time since talking to her it’s gone longer than a few hours or overnight without her saying anything, especially not responding, so I’m thinking I’m getting ghosted here. Is it worth sending another text or is that too desperate? I really liked this girl as much as you can without meeting I guess and she said as much to me and flirted a lot.
Posted Aug 8, 2025, 5:06 PM UTC