Everyday Clothes

Hello! I’ve been wondering if there are any certain things that people in the community wear in their everyday clothes that is a little nod or hint that they’re a Dom, sub, or just into BDSM in general.

My most recent ex spotted me because I was wearing a leather wrist cuff and all black. She said seeing the wrist cuff gave her a clue to me, tho to be honest I wear it cuz I love wearing leather like jackets, boots, and wrist cuffs in my everyday life 24/7. For subs, is that how you would spot a Dom? And what would it be for subs to be spotted by a Dom? I know there are some people who are very secretive about their life in this community, I’m very open about mine and don’t really mind if someone off the street or in college asked me.