does the friendship paradox resonate with you? do you feel that you are more likely to meet women who dated/are dating many more men than you date women? how do you deal with it?

if you are not familiar the Friendship Paradox, it says that on average, your friends have more friends than you have. Than anyone has. that's because you are more likely to be friends with someone who makes many friends.

and it's a much more general mathematical phenomenon that says that in any network of connections not just friendships where each node/entity can have a different number of connections to others, on average each node will have less connections than the connections of the nodes they are connected to

so.. if you replace friendship with situationship, the principle likely still applies

so basically - have you experienced meeting/dating a women who had a large number of past partners, or was even actively dating multiple men? do you find the phenomenon applies to your sexual connections, where you are more likely to meet with a woman who dates around a lot than to meet a woman who does not?

...are many men mostly seeing the same women?