Fellow INTJs what would you hypothesize to be the truth, of these options?
Last year, I (a woman) had two men stare at me on separate occasions, and did not sense malice from either. One stared when I was with a student, I remember I had been talking to the student (was giving them a bike ride) and he had a softness behind his eyes while staring at me, like he was very fixated on me. It was a rainy day so I was actually in a jacket. Other time, guy seemed to already be staring at me when I walked past (I had said hi, was wearing a short dress) - I came back and he was still staring, so I had played up my personality, hugging a coworker and pretending to be more vivacious than I am. He looked nervous, almost kind of bashful, when I said hi again but was smiling at me. I believe, as a 20yr old, in type most attracted to theories (most likely to have crush on like ISFJs most attracted to ESTPs, INFP’s most into INTJ’s and ENFP’s which they confirmed on their sub, I actually don’t agree ESTPs like ISFJs the most.)
Posted Aug 8, 2025, 9:13 PM UTC