Parenting in mbti

Sooo im an enfp female, and my dad is an istj, while my mother is an isfj.. and i HATE it sm For an enfp depending on this two types is so draining because they tend to be overprotective, closed mind and to want everything perfect, what i mean is that they will yell at u for the smallest things, that sometimes aren't even mistakes, like when i do something and i get get it well done, but i dont do it their way they will yell. They also complain a looooottt and take everything seriously. I used to express myself but they think my imaginetive stuff and different ideas dont matter.. Anyways, they still have some good things, i mean, they are like this cause they care and sometimes they are gentle to me and express afection, but this things are unfortunately the majority, can u consel me on this? I hope this isn't against the rules i really wanted to blurt out everything