I have my now ex bf’s license, what’s a ritual I can do with it to move on?
Roughly two weeks ago my boyfriend of 4years and I broke up. It wasn’t a horrible breakup or anything, we’ve both just been struggling with long distance, and with our lives going in different directions we don’t have time for a relationship. We made plans to talk respectfully and swap items when he gets back from a trip before heading our separate ways. I have a few of his shirts and whatnot, including his old license I found while cleaning that he accidentally left at my place. Even though he’s already replaced it, I still plan on giving it back, but I want to use it in some sort of ritual I can do to ease my mind while I process the breakup. I don’t want him to suffer, but it would be nice if I could get him to see things more from my perspective. I realize in hindsight how much of my own well-being I was sacrificing to make him happy while he could just check out of the relationship and focus on himself. Any ideas or suggestions on how I can use it? Even though he’ll probably get rid of it, when I return it is there any way I can bless it to “return bad vibes back to sender” sort of thing? I’m new to all of this but I believe in the power of intention.
Posted Aug 11, 2025, 2:31 AM UTC