Help Ghost Not Found

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Huuuum my sim erupted in flame after woohoo, which alright I guess, but then died and I selected for them to keep their inventory with their ghost because I didn't want to have them lose anything but now I can't find their urn/tombstone at all????? Help I want to reinvite their ghost in my family??? I don't have the death related pack. Also, they were a vampire before death, will their vampire level reset now they died?

EDIT SOLVED: I went and MCCCd them back in altho it did feel like cheating. Just couldn't bear losing them. I did, ultimately, end up losing their inventory though. Oop.