I have ED or not ? Help

Hi guys, I have morning wood every sign morning and it last for a Long time, 30 min wook Easley. But when it comes to sex, i become completely cold, no erection. No feelings, nothing. I could come in a minute from rubbing the thing on the female. So that's premature Ejaculation as a bonus. However, i see two reasons for it. One, is that for all my life i masturbate using thus rubbing technique, while wearing my pants i would rub myself to ejaculation. Maybe after years my brain thinks this is what sex is. The second reason i think it couldy be the girls, the two girls i tried having sex with were pethitic boring bored girl, with no beauty or attractiveness. Could that be the reason ?