The 'what are we' talk?

Questions / Advice Wanted

Girl im seeing (25f) and i (26f) are both new to wlw dating (ive dated guys in the past and shes new to dating).

We met on hinge and have been going on dates for about a month now (went out for like 4 dates)- texting everyday, seeing each other once weekly. Its going great, we even hung out with her friend.

I think the connection is there fs, but she isn't usually the one to make the moves since she hasn't dated anyone in the past before- so I initiated hugs, holding hands etc (havent kissed yet).

My question is: i want to move things forward and become exclusive- is it too early to have that talk?

Usually with guys i remember them bringing it up around 4-5th date or even 2 month mark. But i really like her and i think she likes me too, but also dont want to rush into things and make her uncomfortable since she is new to dating.

i stopped going on hinge after my first date with her and idk if shes the same- but i was thinking about us being exclusive- what r yalls thoughts? Also we r meeting this weekend and i was thinking ab kissing her; is this too early?

All advice r welcomed! Help a girl out😫

Posted Aug 12, 2025, 5:38 PM UTC

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