help me please

so i am currently getting in to fpv ive got my self a older r9m mini module on this drone i bought and the r9 lite on my radio master pocket but i cannot for the life of me get it to bind i have no clue the receivers number like 00 to 63 i have flashed the r9 lite on 2 diffrent softwares to see if it is that but i do not want to have to dissasable the drone and take the board out to flash that btw when i plug the drone in it doesnt come up on beta flight or speedybee