22M, looking advice over self play

Hi, Im a 22M who recently discovered sexuality (very very conservative background). Coming from a very orthodox family in India, I have never discovered complete sexuality until this year.

I recently discovered that I have a fetish for pee play, exhibitionism and anal play.

For exhibitionism, usually, I record myself while self play (masturbating) and just store in a hard disk drive as my local porn. Getting watched or recorded makes me super hard.

My questions are...

1. How to safely incorporate pee play as a guy in my self play sessions? In a way that's most enjoyable.

2. How to explore exhibitionism without getting in radar of my contacts