Should I sleep with my older coworker?
18 F have been working with an older coworker 34M since the beginning of summer. I am away from home and I have this job just for the summer until the end of the month. Since we met, we have been flirting at work and throwing sexual jokes at each other and we hung out a few times outside of work. The other day I went over to his house: we had dinner and then we spent the night together, but we did not have sex. I am leaving to go back home in 7 days and now I’m wondering if I should sleep with him while I still have the chance to. The thing is I’m not sure if I’m actually attracted to him or if I just want to do something with him because he’s the only man that’s ever given me that kind of attention. I am a virgin and I have never been in a relationship before so everything about this is weird/new to me so I don’t really know how to navigate it. A part of me thinks I should sleep with him because it makes for a good story that I can bring home and tell my friends but then at the same time I am wondering if that age gap will fuck with me over the years. What happens if I lose my virginity to a guy I have a 16 year age gap with? Does it matter? This whole thing is more about the age gap than the fact he’s a coworker since he won’t be for long cause I have one week left on the job. Usually when coworkers are sleeping together or want to sleep together people say it’s not a good idea because then it gets awkward at work but the thing is I’m never gonna work with this guy again so that’s one aspect I do not take into consideration. For me right now, whatever happens can be left in the past. What do you guys think? Thank you.
Posted Aug 14, 2025, 12:25 AM UTC