How do you guys date

I see people on reddit and social media legit have partners that spend time together like almost 24/7 and also have nice dates, gifts, and parties.

They legit be like “I have the man of my dreams” and then their bf is actually like available almost 24/7 or at least 6+ hours per day and have money for dates, gifts, and parties.

Like possessive clingy bf sound cute in memes where their bf has no female friends and only look at their gf but how is that work in real life because that will usually just cut out connections and time and connections and time is really important for career growth and self improvement irl its not like its in movies.