What is the “best way” to tell AP about my non asian partner?

Yes, I want my parents to know, it’s very important for my own mental health. So I have two plans in mind.

The first one. I thought of writing a letter to better convey my thoughts and feelings (especially since I stutter A LOT in front of my parents) but my writing was extremely passive aggressive, so I am not sure if I should stay neutral or keep it like that.

But then, the second plan came and it was to just tell them casually. Because I hate the first idea of me having to go through a whole Hamilton script just to say “I have a partner who is not asian” and pleading to accept & understand me.

A part of me wishes to make a big “fuss” over it by writing that letter. Throw everything I feel in it. But another part wishes to just drop the bomb like that. No need to prepare them from the shock, because it’s my life and I decide what to do.

And well… I am hesitating. Hard.