Why does it seem like attractive men avoid commitment these days?

Dating has been really hard lately, and I wonder if there are any men left who truly want to build a devoted, loving, stable, safe, monogamous relationship. The kind where you’re each other’s person and family.

From my experience, the men I meet who are active, confident, attractive, and socially engaged often seem more focused on casual flings or keeping their options open. I’ve met men who genuinely want devotion and stability, but rarely see both qualities in the same person...

It makes me wonder if attractive men don't want to create a genuine, safe, devoted relationship anymore? Do they not believe in love and lasting commitment the way they used to?

If you’re in a relationship, married, or have been deeply in love, I’d love to hear about it. How do you feel about your partner and the love you share? What made you choose that deep commitment over keeping things casual? I think I just need my faith restored that the kind of love I believe in still exists. 💕